The Gifts of the Magi

Tuesday is January 6, the Twelfth Day of Christmas. Christians celebrate this day as the Epiphany, when the Magi arrived from the East seeking the new king. They brought with them three gifts: gold, frankincense and myrrh.

These were gifts of great luxury and honor. Frankincense and myrrh are both made from the resin of trees found on the Arabian Peninsula, and areas of North Africa. They were valued for their scent and used in religious rituals and as perfume and incense, something only the temples and the very rich could afford.

But frankincense and myrrh show up in ancient medical texts as well, some dating from 1500 B.C. They were suggested for treating battlefield wounds and used as anti-inflammatory, analgesic and antiseptic. In fact, there’s a long list of ancient suggested uses: digestion, asthma, congestion, cough, hemorrhoids, arthritis, dry and cracked skin and gum disease.

The resins were so valued that the Incense Route was born: the trade path for frankincense, myrrh and other spices. It flourished in the Arabian Peninsula for 800 years, meeting up with other major trade roads heading to and from the Far East. The route was incredibly profitable, and cities grew up along the way to accommodate the traffic. Then diminished trade in the 3rd century caused the trade routes to alter, and just like that, the towns and the trade disappeared into the desert landscape.

With them went a general understanding of the medicinal uses of frankincense and myrrh, at least in the Western world. They are still used in Eastern forms of healing and medicine. But if I can be completely cynical for a moment, we are trained in the US to believe we can have “better living through chemistry” and that Eastern medicine is New Age-y or un-Christian or under-educated.

Which is not true. It’s an ancient and biblical wisdom developed and shared through-out the Far and Middle East for thousands of years before Jesus was born. It’s part of what made the gifts of the Magi so valuable.

For the first time this morning, I had this thought: From Mary’s perspective, perhaps the frankincense and myrrh were not gifts of wealth, but gifts of health for her baby.

And so for us.

Maybe someday, Western and Eastern medicine will be complementary, used to treat the whole patient. In the meantime, I have frankincense and myrrh essential oils in my medicine cabinet to use—after consultation with our doctors—for things that do not require more serious medicine, like wound healing and scar reduction. My friend is having her teenage son use it for his acne. In the next few months, I will be working with a local goat milk vendor to see what happens when her amazing face butter meets the anti-aging trio of frankincense, myrrh and helichrysum.

All of these are uses suggested in my copy of the Modern Essentials Usage Guide (6th edition, 2014). Always use in consultation with a doctor in case of interaction with certain drugs.

For more information and to purchase frankincense and myrrh essential oils, visit www.mydoterra.com/danaalvarez/

Christmas Cobbler

Can we start with this: On Christmas Eve, it snowed on our hill. Look at my babies. They have no idea what to do.

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On the second day of Christmas, my true love gave to me: a dessert hack.

Our new home town is also home to Harry and David, gourmet grocers, famous for their Moose Munch and gift baskets. Their flagship store also has fresh groceries. Last week they had cherries for $2/lb. So I bought a bunch, thinking I would make some jam.

Then the kids started eating them.

A few days ago I put them away in an effort to save enough to make a cherry cobbler for Christmas dinner. I need to work on my hiding places, because yesterday morning there were twenty sad cherries in the bottom of the bowl.

What I did have in abundance was cranberries and tangerines. So I made up a citrus cranberry cherry cobbler, using the cobbler topping from my trusty BHG New Cookbook (the 1989 version, thank you very much). Super easy and delicious!

Ingredients:

Filling:

1 bag fresh cranberries

½ cup water

½ cup fresh squeezed tangerine juice (orange would work, too)

¾ cup sugar

Whatever cherries (or any other berries, fresh or frozen) you got, sister! Pit them, of course.

Topping:

1 cup flour

¼ cup sugar

1 teaspoon baking powder

½ teaspoon cinnamon

3 tablespoons butter

1 egg

3 tablespoons milk

Preheat oven to 400 F degrees.

Pop the cranberries, sugar, water and juice into a pot and bring to a boil over medium heat. Cook until cranberries pop and break down into sauce, stirring occasionally, about ten minutes. Add cherries, and cook for a few more minutes, until the cherries begin to soften.

In a separate bowl, combine flour, sugar, baking powder and cinnamon. Cut in the butter fork or pastry knife. Whisk milk and egg separately, then add to mixture, stirring just to combine

Pour hot fruit mix into an 8x8x2 baking dish. Crumble topping over mixture. Cook for 20 to 25 minutes, until crumble browns.

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I would normally serve this with homemade whopped cream, but since my Kitchenaid DIED on December 23 and the nearest service center is Portland–no, I can’t talk about it, hurts too much.

Ice cream would work too.

Dana and I hope you enjoy this Christmas season. We’ll see you again on Epiphany. In the meantime, happy New Year to you and yours. Be warm, be safe, be happy!

 

Come As You Are

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I’ve been trying to write this post about the Drummer Boy and folks who don’t go to church because they think they aren’t good enough.

It wasn’t working. I was trying too hard to say the right words.

So here are the true words instead.

My favorite Christmas song is “The Little Drummer Boy”. I like it because it’s a song for the outcasts. The message is “Forget what they say, come as you are, all are welcome, all are loved.”

In today’s church bureaucracy, twisted up around rules and platforms, the come as you are message sometimes gets squashed. It’s easy to believe, from the outside, that only the right people go to church.

Of course, this is a lie. I’m regularly inside a church, which should be enough to convince you that “perfect” and “church” are not hand-holding friends. My church is full of sinners. I know this because we make a confession of sins every single week. And get this: even the priest says it. Boom.

Still, folks hesitate at the doors. They stay behind while others head out for midnight Mass, joking behind their glass of wine about being “retired”.

Or they shake off the invitation to come along with a whispered “I couldn’t because of, you know….” The divorce. The addiction. The lifestyle. The third husband.

Or they are angry at the church for some (probably very good) reason.

I think that most of the time, what’s holding them back is the brick and mortar institution of church. Which can be daunting, judgmental and sometimes—yes, we have to admit it—destructive. Any church that drives people out instead of in is destructive to God’s will.

I get it. I have packed my bags and headed for the door in my faith life more than once.

But then someone always says to me “It’s not about the church. It’s about Jesus.”

And this stops me because I cannot imagine my life without Jesus. I have to come to Jesus, like that Drummer Boy, with nothing but my weaknesses, imperfections and sins, and find love. Without that soul shelter, I cannot continue to wife, mother, friend, function in this world.

Can I get an Amen from the choir?

Right. So here’s the thing—We have to tell the people in our life who hesitate outside the door that we go to church because we’re human and frail and sometimes we suck. We’re not good because we go. If we’re good, it’s because of the love that we find there.

And if you are one of those people, already dreading the Christmas Eve guilt trip and also secretly wishing you could swallow your pride and just go, remember this: There is nothing, nothing, nothing in your life that would make the Baby turn you away. Just come as you are. Bring what you have. Let the love heal you.

Merry Christmas from our families to yours.

We wish you health, peace and of course many, many graces!

Our most popular post ever… Soup in a Jar

We’ve made it… it’s the final week before Christmas.  If you’re like me, you’re done-ish with Christmas shopping, and you’re close to being done-ish with your wrapping.  The kids are amped up:  there are team parties, dance studio parties, preschool parties, and family parties. And you, my friend… you need an easy dinner.

And guess what.  If you make a bunch of these this weekend, you’ve got gifts for co-workers, new moms, overwhelmed moms, college students, stay-at-home dads, grandmas.  You’ll be super popular.  You’re welcome.

Here’s the how-to:

Line up a bunch of ½ pint mason jars on your kitchen counter.  Then layer in the dry ingredients.  That’s it.  You could tie a little plaid ribbon around the jar or something like that.  Heck, you could tie a cute vintage spoon with it.  I just thought of that, how cute would that be?!  When you or the recipient of these cute little jars are ready to cook, just add a can of diced tomatoes, 1 lb of cooked meat (I prefer sausage, of course), and 6 cups of water.  Bring to a boil, cover, and simmer for 45 minutes.  Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and have a Cool Yule.

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Soup in a Jar

Ingredients:

1/4 cup split peas

1/8 cup chicken bullion

1/8 cup pearl barley

1/4 cup dry lentils (I used pretty red, but any color will do)

1/8 cup onion flakes

1 tsp. Italian seasoning

1/4 cup white rice

1 14 oz can diced tomatoes

6 cups water

1/2  – 1 lb cooked meat (I used Hillshire Farms sausage for extra flavor but I bet chicken would be delicious, too.)

Directions:

  1. If making jars ahead of time, layer all dry ingredients in half-pint mason jar.
  2. When ready to cook, combine all ingredients in a stock pot.  Bring to a boil.
  3. Reduce heat, cover, and simmer for 45 minutes.
  4. Enjoy!

Dear Church Leaders

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There’s a lot of despair in American right now. I know this is true for any given Tuesday, but right now feels different. The last few weeks have been a series of spiritual body blows, from Ferguson to Staten Island to the CIA. Nobody knows what they don’t know and the truth feels slippery. Who can we trust?

Folks are acting out and not just the ones we see on TV. Social media is alive with anger and hatred. Say what you like about social media, people use it, read it and are influenced by it. Right now there’s a virtual war going on and people are aiming to kill.

Our political leaders are acting out too, every single chance they get. That’s what finally plopped me in front of this keyboard: watching politicians who call themselves Christians and pro-life, who campaign with the support of the Christian churches in this nation, defending the use of torture. Just Sunday, one of them said he would do it all again, even the torture of innocent people.

We’re in the wilderness, circling the wagons, trying to protect us from them. There’s so much fear, and we’re never good when we’re scared.

We need you, but you are nowhere to be found.

There are those who believe you aren’t speaking up because you’re scared to anger your “base”. I dismiss this argument for two reasons: one, the people who make up your “base” are followers of Jesus, who called us to love, not hatred, prejudice or torture. And two, our Christian faith transcends politics. It’s bigger than any personal agenda, political party, government or nation.

Maybe you’re just plain scared, like the rest of us. This I can understand.

A few weeks ago, four prominent rabbis in New York recited the kaddish for Eric Garner. They did this because, as one of them said “Rabbis and all Jews need to stand up and say that every single person is a creation in the divine image — that black lives matter…We put our bodies on the line to show how crucial it is that the systems meant to protect us do protect all of us.”

They stood up for what was right and used prayer for healing. They did it with peace and love in their hearts.

Then they got arrested. This is how upside down the world is at the moment.

Not meaning any disrespect to the rabbis, but they reminded me of Jesus. Don’t you just know He would have done the same?  I felt comforted because the rabbis showed me that the grief and uncertainty in my heart are real. And that we need prayer right now, in our hearts but also out where everyone can see it, solid, un-moving, determined, courageous.

So I am asking you to end your silence.

Lead us in prayer for understanding, to soften what has become scared and hard.

Lead us in difficult conversations about reconciling the anger and prejudices in our hearts.

Lead us to challenge the politicians who have strayed from sacred value of respect for life from birth to death.

Stand up and be Christ in this world. Shepherd your sheep. We need you.