I have always tried to find a better way to come at Lent with my kids.
This year is no different, as we are 1 day out and Annie is settled on giving up the monkey bars.
God bless her little heart, she loves her some monkey bars.
It’s probably too much to expect a 7-year-old to be reflective, but Gabe and Kate are now old enough to learn something from Lent.
And the idea of a token “sacrifice” of chocolate or cursing for 40 days has left me wanting more. Maybe because it was always presented to me as a small thing compared to the sacrifice Jesus made on the cross.
But what if that’s the wrong way to think about it?
Nothing I can do will ever match what Jesus did for me.
On Sunday, a solid catechism Bible Scavenger Hunt from my partner teacher Megan dropped a new way to frame Lent into my lap.
All three of the Temptation stories in the Gospels tell us Jesus went into the desert after his baptism to prepare for his ministry.
Why the desert? If the goal was solitude, why not a boat on the sea for forty days? Or a trek into the mountains?
Why the desperate, relentless austerity of the desert?
Yes, it calls back to the forty days Moses spent on the Mount before receiving the Ten Commandments and the forty years the Israelites wandered after their escape from Egypt. Jesus is tempted by the devil in the desert and refutes the temptation, staying faithful to God, in contrast to both Adam and the Israelites. There’s a whole world of theological scholarship out there about these forty days.
But I’m just a mom in front of a laptop trying to figure out a way to grow faith in my kids, so I’m going with a boots on the ground application: Jesus went into the desert so he could focus.
In the desert, there are no distractions.
We are running with that this year: Focus—not on what we’re not doing, but on removing the distractions that turn us away from our relationship with God. Making our lives more like a desert for the next 40 days.
Pack up the toys, clothes, stuff that surrounds us. Clear out the clutter. Save money by forgoing nights out, expensive dinners, new things. Use less words, especially of the cursing and gossiping kind. Spend less time online wanting what we don’t have, or what someone else has. Spend less time watching news that is designed to scare, addict, divide. Reject all the ways we are tempted, as the devil tried to tempt Jesus, by the things of this world.
Practice simplicity. Prayer. Contemplation. Fasting.
Listen for the angels who will minister to us.
Open our hearts and hands every day to the word and will of God.
This will be our Lent, our walk in the desert. I’ll let you know how it goes.
Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the desert to be tempted by the devil.
After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry.