The last 48 hours have torn our social fabric into pieces.
It is such a human, natural reaction to take sides and dig in. To hold the line.
In my tiny little slice of the world, I have huddled like a turtle in my shell, watching my social media and the comments of news articles. My friends who are people of color are speaking a painful, challenging and sacred rage out into the holy space and demanding change. Our beloved Medford Police have gone almost silent in their presence, out of respect but also fear and care.
In my circle, because I know all my people, there are no pitchforks.
No pie forks either.
Folks are wary. Waiting for someone else to make the first move and dictate the mood.
This is not the way.
Philando Castile was a good man serving children. I can carry his loss in my hands at the same time I carry the horror of those officers in Dallas who came to a protest without body armor to show that they were not the bad guys—and were shot down in the street.
I do not have to take sides to fight for justice. I can carry both.
We can carry both.
And when we carry both as a people, we do the most important work of all—patiently and steadily holding the bridge. We’re going to need the bridge later, to repair and heal.
Others may hold the lines drawn on the battlefield. There is a season for that. We have all found ourselves holding the lines.
But if that is not where your heart is called, and if your hands are large and loving enough today to carry both, come hold the bridge.